So, I bit the bullet once again. I placed an ad on a listing site. I did this one other time and had what I thought were good results. I even got to the point of meeting someone…..what a mistake that turned out to be. Won’t get into details here, but it is a situation of ‘my fault/your fault’ and no compromise. We did have a meeting of the minds and bodies…..and wow, oh wow….was that good. But it just won’t go anywhere.
So I posted the following:
Looking to find someone that is interested in a potential long-term relationship with ANR as a dynamic component to the relationship. If you are not sure that that is, PLEASE…..Google it. You will find out.
I am 45, BBW (currently working my body), 5′ 3″, red/blue, and not looking for game players, one-night stands, or anyone that thinks I can ‘teach’ them!
I am looking for someone that is my age group (NO younger than 40 and NO older than 55). Someone that understands the kind of relationship this is and the commitment it requires. Looking for someone in the XYZ area; but will entertain other locations, based on the situation.
Please email me…..I would like to hear from you!
So my responses began almost immediately. Some of them are here in their entirety, with my comments (not my actual email back):
1. Hi — 52yr wm. living in XYZ — would love to talk more.
Ok, he is close, a bit older than me; but HEY! DO YOU HAVE EXPERIENCE????? Turns out he doesn’t.
Your ad is a blessing. That is to have a woman show up offering what I seek rather then my quest to find a woman interested in what I seek.
I worship breast, the fullness, the textures, the shape, the structure, and the god given gift of creating milk when properly coaxed and trained. Milk to nourish me, breasts to satisfy my driven desire to kiss, caress, and nurse from.
I am strongly attracted to a buxom, full-figured woman. Fat does not register in my profile of what attracts me… I love large thighs, hips, arms, girth, thickness, and large buttocks. The textures and curves of a large woman create a strong attraction for me. I am fully aroused at this moment as wonder how you are shaped and how your breasts will affect me.
I travel a lot. I could not be in a long-term committed relationship that offers time together on a regular basis. I get one weekend in XYZ each month. Is there any way you could be interested in a man that can visit you one weekend per month but be in contact with you by phone, email, and text continuously?
I am 54, divorced, 6’2″, 270 lbs. a white gentleman
Really? You can only offer 1 weekend a month? And I am supposed to have an ANR out of this? Sorry dude!
3. I am a real breast man i have helped 2 other women produce breast milk and really enjoyed it , what size are you on top and do you know where XYZ is?
Ok, helped 2 other women….that is a bonus. What size am I? Hmmm, that is a minus (size of breasts do not matter in this) and yes, I know where your town is. Sorry…..I am not interested.
4. Hi,Im 42yrs have a job,house etc,pic for pic
Really? You have a job and a house? That is great……what does that tell me about your interest in ANR?? Not one flipping thing?
5. hi there how are u today
Um, fine thank you. How are you? Obviously he is just looking to talk to someone?
Got a pic?
Yep I got one, but I am not sharing it with you!!!!!
7. Hmmmm. You have a very articulate and well-written post! I appreciate your intellect, as it’s an important factor for me in a relationship. Got to have it! And your write well, too.
But are you still seeking? Over, 6.204 replies yet?
It’s difficult to find a woman who desires an ANR. I seek to nurse on a regular basis. Are you lactating or do you need to be made to?
6’2″, 186, fun, conversant, 52, very well-traveled, too many hobbies to list, very handsome, many friends, creative, articulate, no kids, great shape, NOT desperate, and much more. About an hour from you, but can travel and has flexible schudule.
I HAVE PHOTOS!
Thanks for reading.
With a follow-up email from him:
I do enjoy nursing, and require lengthly sessions of suckling. I find it to be erotic, soothing, and highly nutritious.
I am not seeking an LTR, but instead a friend who requires her breasts to be suckled on a regular basis. Typically I enjoy light conversation followed by lenghtly nursing sessions. I prefer to lie sideways across you lap, and suckle while you hold my head to your breasts.
I do not seek intercourse. I do, however, on ocassion, automatically orgasm hard after about 40 minutes of nursing. I am happy to suckle clothed or naked so you may observe what you wish. I prefer breasts with a cup size of D or larger.
I uderstamd that this may not be what you seek!
Nope, not what I am looking for.
8. How are you? I’m 40 years old 6’2 brown hair brown eyes 230lbs. I’m.from the XYZ area. I’m.a total breast man I love the ANR aspects of it. I am looking for a possible ltr also.
I enjoy dinner movies traveling or whatever might be going on around in.the area. Here is a picture hope to hear from you.
Ok, I think this might just be a keeper! *Will let you know where this one goes.*
9. I like your ad.
I am 48, married, 6′ 2″, 205#, moderately athletic, normal.
I am very interested in learning more about your desire for an ANR relationship.
I will show up if invited.
May I please tell you more?
Hmm, ok, I do realize that my ad didn’t say anything about being single…but I would think it is a given? Maybe not. NOTE: I do politely respond stating that I am not looking to get involved with anyone that is married.
I get this very pleasant email back.
I certainly understand your aversion to married men, but assure you that my situation is unique.
My wife underwent an early and extremely difficult menopause several years ago. Together, we have tried many therapies and procedures, but her situation is unchanged. She has no desire for sex, with me or anyone.
Prior to this, we had engaged in an active sex life that focused on her large breasts and milk.
I am looking for the extremely allusive, ongoing ANR that you described in your ad.
She has given me permission in this case to contact you.
May I please tell you more?
Ok, well, hmm…….I really do want to talk to this gentleman more……
Ok, so in the end, I did get some ok replies also…..and I have sent information back to them, but, I will just continue talking with the ones that have hit a ‘chord’ with me and see what happens.
On a side note, I did start my own Yahoo Group. North America ANR/ABF Meeting Place. Why? Well, it is a contradiction to who I am… LOL……Most people that know me, know that I am rather submissive. OK, extremely submissive. However, starting my own ANR group? That was all about control!! HEE HEE. You can find a link over there ß for my group.
Well, happy nursing everyone